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    I'm going to be on here sporadically over the next few days. My wifes operation was changed from April 29th to May 8th....So the next week or so is going to be weird.
    So if I don't get back to you right away....You know why.
    Thanks for all your support.
    Especially you Pinchy...You have been a wonderful listener and great with advice.
    Oh and Eve.....Thanks for your worry when I've been gone here and there.
    Ed.....
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      CommentAuthorMrPinchy
    • CommentTimeApr 29th 2008 edited
     
    Aww...

    Good luck with everything, Ed. We are here and we are rooting for you and the Mrs... Come back when you can :).
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    Best of luck and good vibes to and your wife Ed.
    I'll be thinking about you guys.
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    Word. Hope mrs eduardo recovers quickly. ed, i also wish you much strength, wisdom and patience
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    luck be with you ed... i hope everything turns out good and you can get back to the bastardly quickly.
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    Hey...I'll be around, just not as regularily....After the 8th....Not so sure.....She will have a hard recovery.
    Thanks so much for your thoughts and wishes though.....I appreciate it immensly. Positive energy is the way to go.
    :O)
    • CommentAuthorglimmer
    • CommentTimeApr 30th 2008
     
    finger crossed and beyond..... :)
    • CommentAuthorManolo
    • CommentTimeApr 30th 2008
     
    Good luck dude
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    dude i thought you were going to be a few days, give me an opportunity to miss you and beg for you to come back
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    I thought it was going to be really busy with appointments and such, but we got all the pre-op clearance stuff done for clearance for surgery yesterday, but they changed the date at the last minute....
    But on the 8th.....You will have time to miss me.
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      CommentAuthorTori
    • CommentTimeApr 30th 2008
     
    good luck ed.
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    She got through surgery and that went well, but they put her in the ICU due to a sleep appnea problem. She stops breathing for 10 to 20 seconds at a time and
    her blood oxygen levels keep plummeting.
    Plus she did want us to leave and kept trying to get out of bed to go have a cigarette. Only problem is she is strapped to a cushion thing between her legs. She basically strapped in....Fortunately the morphine would knock her out mid thought and she'd wake up 20 seconds later acting as though we just got there.
    Looks like she will be alright....*crosses fingers*....Scary seeing her all bloated from surgery and hooked up to every machine invented by the medical profession.
    Thanks for all your positive karma.
    Ed....
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    oh wow...good luck with everything.
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    Glad the surgery went well Ed.
    Wishing your wife a smooth recovery and you any of my strength that you need.
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      CommentAuthorMrPinchy
    • CommentTimeMay 9th 2008
     
    Well... I'm glad that she's doing okay. Sounds like a scary situation, but it also sounds like she made it through the surgery and is well on her way to getting better.

    Like KB said, hope that her recovery goes off with out a hitch and this whole ordeal puts an end to her [and your] troubles.
    • CommentAuthorTLA
    • CommentTimeMay 9th 2008
     
    I hope everything goes smoothly and that her recovery is quick and painless... See you when we see you Ed...

    Give your dog a big ol' hug for me...
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    Well....I left her that night in PACU....The recovery room. She had a great nurse that was watching her every breath. Literally.
    She was going to be sent up to ICU for close monitoring.
    I went home, thinking she was in good hands and got some sleep. Unfortunately I came back to a complete nightmare. Turns out the
    same Anthesiologist that over medicated her did it to 8 others the same day. She didn't have sleep appnea, but instead was over medicated.
    Also when she went up to a ICU she had a nurse that kept pressing her morphine button. She was still unable to move or protest, but the morphine
    would make her vomit....So every time the nurse pressed the button she would vomit. Finally after about 15 or so instances of this, my wife was
    able to say, "I refuse care."
    Thing is, the person being operated on is the only one, that has the legal right to press that button. The ICU nurse didn't even change her dressings
    or sheets. In fact she wasn't changed and given a bucket to throw up in until she got to the orthopedic floor.
    I stayed every night with her in the hospital after hearing that and the fact that you would hear people yelling for help for 20 mintues before a nurse
    would attend to them.
    Surgeon was great, but the hospital sucked big time.
    Honestly we are working on a suit against them, because not only did the ICU nurse press the morphine button, not redress her after vomiting, but kept
    yelling at her to calm down once Cindy became more alert.
    She survived despite the hospital...Which is pretty sad.
    In any event....We got her home on Tuesday and have been being a full time caretaker until she is back on her feet or until I run out of vacation days.
    She up and about a little, but due to swelling is mostly laying down most of the day. We have exercises and walks she has to do.
    Plus watching her pain meds and creating meals....It has really brought us closer together.
    Alls well so far.
    Thanks for your thoughts and support everyone!
    I probably won't be a regular around here for at least another week, but thought I'd give an update to those that were concerned.
    ed
    • CommentAuthoranababy
    • CommentTimeMay 17th 2008
     
    Awww, Good luck to you and your wife!

    You guys will make it out okay and it's great that now you two are even closer. Just keep being positive. :)

    You'll be missed around here (well, until you become a regular again...)
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    Hi Ed!

    Really sorry to hear about the incidents in the hospital, dreadful, happy that they are now behind you both.

    Glad that your wife is home with you now, is up and about a little bit and that the two of you are feeling ever closer to one another. :)

    A continuing stream of good vibes to you both Ed.
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      CommentAuthorMrPinchy
    • CommentTimeMay 17th 2008
     
    Christ... Hospitals are terrifying places.

    I'm really glad she pulled out of all that garbage and is on the road to recovery.

    Good luck. Take good care of her.
    • CommentAuthorglimmer
    • CommentTimeMay 17th 2008
     
    hit'em with the laywers...

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