Tell me about it. What's funny is...Well at least in my case...I'm not really happy unless I please the woman...I think many guys are that way though. It's an ego thing.....So you get a surgical procedure that make it harder for you to get aroused....Well that doesn't really work does it. Woman often think men think like them....These woman need to realize that in the end men....Good men anyway...Want to please their women....So this is sort of against the grain.